72% of Women feel unsafe walking alone in Kingston

Three in four women feel unsafe when walking at night in Kingston, according to our survey of 500 18 to 35 year old women.

Many of these women had experienced harassment or intimidation, with reports of catcalling and being followed.

Yesha Dave, a 24-year-old graduate, said: “Just two weeks ago, I declined a drink from a man at the pub, but he would not take no for an answer. He kept bothering me until I decided to leave earlier than planned, only to realise he was following me afterwards. It was terrifying.”

Many shared a common sentiment that Kingston feels safe during the day but becomes a different environment in the evenings.

Bethany Sullivan, a 19-year-old student, said: “It is sad that it is almost second nature to text a friend your location or hold your keys between your fingers when walking home.

I tend to avoid the bus after a night out if I can because it is not just the streets—it is getting home safely overall that feels like a challenge.

I eventually end up booking an overpriced Uber.”

Meanwhile, Cara Smith, a 21-year-old marketing intern, said she has heard too many scary stories about friends having their drinks spiked (see our cover story).

Smith said: “The increased lighting is nice, but it does not address the root of the problem. It is not just about being able to see where you are going, it is about feeling safe from the people around you.

“I am always cautious because I know the risks. If I let my guard down and get even a little intoxicated, I feel like I am more vulnerable to threats.”

Some places in Kingston offer the Ask for Angela initiative, where customers can discreetly ask for help if they feel uncomfortable or threatened.

In addition to initiatives within bars, the #StepUpSWLondon campaign is working to improve safety for women in South West London, including Kingston. This campaign encourages everyone in the community to play a role in making public spaces safer for women. It urges bystanders to speak up when they see someone being harassed or intimidated.

“I appreciate the effort, but it feels like these initiatives are just putting a band-aid on a larger issue,” said Lisa Edwards, a 32-year-old mother. “Women should not have to ask for help to feel safe in public spaces.”

Others expressed concern that safety initiatives inside venues do not extend to the streets surrounding them. “While I might feel secure inside the club, it is the walk home that worries me the most,” said Cara Smith. “The darkness and isolation can make anyone feel vulnerable, regardless of the precautions taken,” she added.